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How To Control Our Feelings


Today I am sharing with you a story I found on Facebook which has a great lesson to teach.The moral of the fenceA fence : A story with a great moral…
There once was a young boy with a very bad temper. The boy’s father wanted to teach him a lesson, so he gave him a bag …of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper he must hammer a nail into their wooden fence.
On the first day of this lesson, the little boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. He was really mad!
Over the course of the next few weeks, the little boy began to control his temper, so the number of nails that were hammered into the fence dramatically decreased.
It wasn’t long before the little boy discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Then, the day finally came when the little boy didn’t lose his temper even once, and he became so proud of himself, he couldn’t wait to tell his father.
Pleased, his father suggested that he now pull out one nail for each day that he could hold his temper.
Several weeks went by and the day finally came when the young boy was able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
Very gently, the father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.
“You have done very well, my son,” he smiled, “but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same.”
The little boy listened carefully as his father continued to speak.
“When you say things in anger, they leave permanent scars just like these. And no matter how many times you say you’re sorry, the wounds will still be there.”Debbie Nicholson - Author Kindle Store


Paekakariki Beach Fishing Catch

Yesterday I went for a walk along the Paekakariki Beach and I came across a local Fisherman.

This machine called a Kontiki is sent 2Km out to sea powered by a motor on the beach and it hauls 25 lines out behind it.  It is left out there for 1 hour and then pulled back in, hopefully with some fish on the lines.

Needless to say I was thrilled to be there to watch what happens from the beginning to the end process.  The results for the day were very pleasing, the fisherman catching himself enough food to take home to his family.

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